tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5443600301115491442.post939931808525773152..comments2024-02-13T08:59:33.455-06:00Comments on Joy 4 Today: Not About Me - Keeping balanced!Esther Joyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12129643709319136198noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5443600301115491442.post-72827850306226478982011-11-08T10:57:50.318-06:002011-11-08T10:57:50.318-06:00Keep Balanced. That's very good advice. I thin...Keep Balanced. That's very good advice. I think people in the situations you describe need to spend a lot of time in prayer. Of course they probably don't think they have time to pray but of course we should be in the spirit of prayer all the time. The Bible says to pray without ceasing. It can't mean to literally be on our knees 24/7. I think posts like yours helps because it reminds those who are in these circumstances that they are not alone, and that in itself is helpful. <br />Thank you for sharing again, Esther Joy. You bring joy into many lives.<br />Blessings,<br />CharlotteCharlottehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533075034458645148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5443600301115491442.post-79128489595751739162011-11-07T14:15:43.057-06:002011-11-07T14:15:43.057-06:00I was a caregiver for my mother-in-law and I think...I was a caregiver for my mother-in-law and I think the best thing was that we hired a day nurse. I know not everyone can do this, but for us it meant we could enjoy her last days without 24 care. I still needed to hook her tpn up each night, etc. but didn't have a lot of other care. Even still our church family helped out with meals and other things. I believe God desires His children to bless caregiver families in this way.Pamelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14577919062812348914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5443600301115491442.post-10949998113032137332011-11-07T04:09:56.544-06:002011-11-07T04:09:56.544-06:00Hello Easter Joy, It is not easy at all being a ca...Hello Easter Joy, It is not easy at all being a caregiver. Its especially difficult when one person is given the job 24/7 without anyone realising they need some time on their own. I cared for one mother-in-law for almost three years as well as having a large home, and four children. Her own son went out almost every night while I was tied down. We had a business in partnership with his brother, so I had to take mother-in-law there with me two days a week. She had alzhiemers and wandered, it was so hard. Prior that I had had my own father on and off before he passed away.<br />Then when I met my now hubby I had no idea I would get his mum 24/7 for 5 months with hardly any rest. My hubby left it to me. We were newly married and his only brother lived alone and couldn't cope with her. She was dying with CA of the lungs. My hubby's grown son acted like there was nothing wrong with her because I had her pain well controlled. This lady was a beautiful person but with occassional hypoxia even though on 2 lts of 02 she became sometimes became nasty. It was so hard. Yes caregivers are forgotten. In Australia they are now recognised with an extra pension, and thank God for respite. In TN I was frowned upon when my M.I.L. went in once briefly. God Bless you for bringing this to the surface. Oh, my knee is so much better. I still can't do everything and get pain, but I know it will keep improving. Hey check out my Health Blog, you won't believe your eyes.Sr Crystal Mary Lindseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03509227559164880311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5443600301115491442.post-15735219811491048082011-11-06T09:06:00.141-06:002011-11-06T09:06:00.141-06:00Amen and AMEN! As a full-fledged member of the San...Amen and AMEN! As a full-fledged member of the Sandwich Generation - several times thru my life, including now when caring for elderly parents and babysitting grandchildren - I totally agree with you about how vital it is for us to spend time daily in the Word of God, soaking in the encouraging and comforting Bible verses God gives us each day. Sometime I do it by reading in my Bible and making notes. When I am on the run from one house to the next, I love to listen to excellent verse by verse Bible studies and sermons on my iPod. It makes such an important difference in my heart, my attitude, my life. Thanks for a very thoughtful and thought-provoking post. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07853668220114748234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5443600301115491442.post-25972610240814268642011-11-05T14:06:02.181-05:002011-11-05T14:06:02.181-05:00Those are very good points. I stretch myself thin ...Those are very good points. I stretch myself thin a lot and then get frustrated and take it out on my kids (ie yelling). If I were to keep balance, then I woudln't be so exhausted all the time. Something to think about for next year.. I'm swamped right now.....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14126126437976274614noreply@blogger.com